A while back I was having a conversation with my wife on an afternoon drive about the issues and struggles that she deals with. She has a beautiful wonderful heart for ministering to all types of people, whether it be family, friends, strangers, members at our church, or evangelizing in the community. Where we met it was actually on a missions trip in Puerto Rico where she was working as the leader. Many women do noble things but my wife surpasses them all (😉 love you sweetie).
So what she was struggling with is people that she comes across that knows the bible and what it teaches but yet go against it. Not in a rebellious way, but a way that is of disregard.
A lot of what we want to do, myself included, is that we want to scream out “YOU ARE WRONG AND I AM RIGHT!” And that is what we do. That’s why you see the collective church broken up into so many denominations. I was talking about an issue and related it to faith and had this “you’re wrong I’m right” attitude and she responded jokingly “sometimes after talking to you I want to stop being a Christian.”
Ouch.
It was humbling. It made me open my eyes to how I evangelize to people. It helped me to learn from my mistakes.
So on that drive with my wife I told her that I don’t think it’s possible to minister to people set in their ways. I went on to explain that I believed it was much easier to minister to people that didn’t believe or had not heard of the gospel or were of another religion. That it was extremely difficult to minister to those within our faith.
It’s exactly what Jesus did throughout the gospels. He helped the sick, the needy, the poor, and the Pharisees (the religious folk) looked down at him in disgust. Hitting him with the proverbial religious filled work filled red tape of all the things he can’t do. They told him he was wrong and they were right.
But Jesus still served. And that’s what we need to do. We serve with a heart that is open.
Just like our demonstrator friends at the Lecrae concert. They’re so filled with “you can’t do this” and so worried about what is right and wrong and black and white. They miss the bigger picture. They miss, we miss, I miss, that it’s about serving and loving others.
They miss that it’s about love. I’ll leave you with a song.